Aside from the fact that you’re setting yourself up for a daily dose of adult entertainment, there are serious benefits to welcoming the best sex toy, as well as BDSM accessories and sex games found in sex toy Advent calendars, into the bedroom.

“Sex toy Advent calendars can be the ultimate gift to yourself or your relationship,” says Annabelle Knight, Sex & Relationships Expert at Lovehoney. “They’re packed with premium items that can turn up the fun and keep things fresh in the bedroom every day. Whether you’re exploring solo or with a partner, with these calendars, each day can be a chance to try something new, building excitement as you unlock each surprise.”

She continues: “Sex toys add a whole new dimension to intimacy and self-pleasure by encouraging you to explore what feels good, boosting confidence, and enhancing your connection with your body and desires.

“Toys can increase pleasure, prolong fun, and even help you reach new kinds of sensations you haven’t experienced before. Plus, using toys with a partner can open up conversations around pleasure, deepen trust, and help you both feel even more in sync.”

While we’ve got her attention, we thought it wise to ask Annabelle for pointers on incorporating the best vibrators and handcuffs for the first time…

Start small and build trust

“Begin with toys that feel manageable, like a small bullet vibrator or blindfold, and let yourselves get comfortable. Toys and BDSM aids work best when there’s open communication and trust between you both, so discuss your boundaries and expectations first.”

Communicate openly

“Talking about what you’d like to try can be thrilling and help you learn more about each other’s preferences. Establish a safe word and check in regularly to make sure you’re both comfortable and enjoying the experience.”

Embrace playfulness

“Adding toys or BDSM aids should be fun, not intimidating. Approach it with a sense of adventure and laughter, which can take the pressure off and keep the mood light and enjoyable.”

Take your time

“Try not to rush to use everything at once; going slow can help you learn what you enjoy with each item, discovering what feels best for both of you.”

Mark your calendars, as this year, Advent kicks off on Sunday, November 30th, running until Wednesday, December 24th 2025.

But for those wondering what exactly Advent is, it’s the four weeks leading up to Christmas Day. The little Latin word actually means ‘arrival’ and refers to Jesus Christ’s birthday. Although, for most, it’s an excuse to start our day with a dose of chocolate, beauty minis or a brand-new vibrator.

It gets earlier and earlier every year, with some of our favourite brands — specifically Lovehoney, Cult Beauty and LookFantastic — launching their 24-day offerings as early as mid-August. We do recommend you get organised, though, as some of these alternative Advent calendars were sold out by October.